Christmas Day Outing

Gambar lagi.. :) biar gambar berbicarala eh.haahahahha ni kira ronda2 tangkap gambo je ni ;)

[my baby and I]

[at Victoria State Library]

[tunggu Cinderella kot hehe]
[graffiti at Hosier Lane]

[at Federation Square- sila abaikan muka yang besar tu ek =.=' ]

[i-center at Federation Square]


[Flinders Station]

[view from Flinders Station]

[ber-cruising at Yarra River-->fanasssssss]

[cek mek dalam train. focus sungguh tgk alam sekeliling hehe]

owh ye.. sebenarnye ada satu tempat lagi kitorang gi. ke Port Melbourne sebab ince' aren nak amek gambo kapal Tasmania. tapi boleh tak dia gi pantai sorang, aku ngan anak tido bawah pokok kat tepi jalan. hahahhahaha selambe je kan? :P

***fenat gilersssss

The Christmas Lights

No words. Just photos :)


***happy holiday everyone.

Potty training part 3



Susulan kisah Sufia yang dah potty train ni. Alhamdulillah 98% Sufia dah berjaya potty train.


Sekarang ni kalau keluar mmg tak pakai nappy dah. Pakai panties je. And dia mmg akan cakap kalau dia nak ke toilet. Yang bagusnya dia dah pandai hold wee wee tu. takdelah cakap nak kencing terus terkencing je. Waktu malam kami masih pakaikan nappy lagi time nak tido. Tapi kalau dia gi kencing before tido biasanya nappy akan kering sampai pagi. So, basically dia mmg tak kan terkencing dalam suar lah.

Tapi minggu lepas satu tragedi happen. Aku tido kan anak, before tido tu dia bad mood tanak g kencing tanak pakai nappy. Pastu yang hampehnye mak nye sekali ketiduran. Sekali sedar2 pukul 3am, tilam dah basah dah. Dah la kitorang mmg pakai tilam double size yang hampar kat lantai je skrg ni. katil besar sume dah buang. huhuhu..so, bile tilam tu kena kencing kami terpaksa la tido atas lantai, beralaskan karpet. dua malam jugak nak tunggu tilam kering. malam kejadian kencing tu pukul 3 am pagi aku menyental tilam kat belakang rumah. orang lain sume sambung tido balik. nak tangguh esok baru basuh takut benda tu dah kering lagi susah nak detect kat mana yang kena kencing. huhuhuhu

Ape pon Alhamdulillah. Lega sangat2. Selain kejadian tu, takdela yang lain2 dah pon. Basically mmg dia dah berak and kencing kat toilet sepenuhnya lah ni. kalau waktu siang dia merepek nak pakai nappy pon dia ttp akan kencing kat toilet. Panties pon aku dah pakaikan panties yang comel2 gambar macam2 instead of training pants tempohari.


***Alhamdulillah. Good job Sufia! LOVE xoxo

Strawberry picking at Keilor

Tadi pegi strawberry picking. dekat2 sini je. drive dalam 30minit kot. saje je nak bawak anak jalan2..

[tukang kutip berjaya :) ]

ok je best jugak la. strawberi pon banyak lagi yang boleh dipetik.

yang xbestnya tadi ada tragedi sikit. bukan kat kami. tapi kat family kawan yang kebetulan pegi sekali. dek kerana owner ladang yang bengis. kawan tu pon lama2 hilang sabar. adehh..

apa pon tu mmg 1st and last la kot kami pi situ. hehe serik. sebab pakcik owner ladang tu mmg garang tak tentu pasal sikit.
[hehhee ternampak benda ni dilangit masa dalam kereta. I love you too hehhehe]

untuk kami, kami puas hati la. sebab sufia pon dah besar. dah paham petik strawberi tu best. hehe..and die pon banyak tolong petik tadi. xmacam masa pegi sebelum2 ni. asek nak bad mood saje. huhuhu

[owh bukan2, ni bukan kasut yang kami beli. kasut ni hanyalah selipar b*d* cap clarks yang aku ada beli tempoh hari. time tu aku beli 15dolar je. hehe sebab penutupan kedai. kat sini dia masih jual harga 49 lagi. harga sale kononnya hehe]

pastu lepas petik strawberi kami jenjalan gi shopping mall lak. rasanya lama giler dah tak kuar bershopping. selalu kuar gak tapi cuci mata je. ekekkee..tadi kami berjalan dapatlah aku kasut sepasang, belikan mak mentua kasut sepasang and kasut sufia sepasang. ayahnya tak dapat kasut sebab baru aritu beli kasut bola yang harganya lagi mahal dari jumlah kasut kitorang bertiga nih. huhuhuhu xpelah, penat dia keje tu. kenala reward diri sendiri ;)

***ok nak buat keje uols :)

5 Years and Happy! :)

Owh rupenya ni adalah entry terlupa nak tulis. sepatutnya tulis 3 hari lepas. hehhehe...


Alhamdulillah dah masuk 5 tahun dah perkahwinan kami. Walaupun to be honest almost hari2 kami mesti ada nak bertekak. kih3..tapi  kami ok je. key nya ape ye? jangan simpan dalam hati kot. hal hari ni jangan bawak ke besok. eh? yeke pandai aku cakap ek..tapi gitu la kot lebey kurang. hehe aku pon degil ince' aren kate. so dia mmg terpaksa bersaboooo dengan aku lah...hahhahahhaa





OKlah. apa pon happy anniversary to us. semoga our happy marriage last forever aminnn and I want you to be my man again in jannah..aminnnn ;)

***Alhamdulillah ya Allah :)

Night Picnic

Cek mek molek aku ni mmg la kalau tido balik sekolah. Malam sah2 segar bugar. Had ni main picnic2 pulak. Ajak ibu soh duduk sekali. Alahaii anak..huhu


***ibu nak wat koje nak

Toilet training - Part 2

Alhamdulillah dah 2 minggu dah. Nampaknya dah berjaya. Wpun bukan 100%. Wpun waktu malam masih pakai nappy lagi. Tapi OK la tu. Yang penting dia dah paham dia xleh kencing suka hati lagi. Almost every day kalau aku bawak dia kencing dia akan cakap "Don't wee wee on the bed, don't wee wee in the nappy, don't wee wee in the panties, don't wee wee on the tilam". Alhamdulillah sangat2. Kecuali dia memang malas sangat2 gi toilet or ralit sangat2 dengan toys dia baru lah terlepas kencing dalam suar.

And yang paling penting sekali, biler nak berak automatic dia akan ke toilet. Regardless dia pakai nappy or panties. Actually kalau kencing pon sama. Dia akan buka nappy/panties sendiri and terus duduk atas toilet seat. Biasanya kalau berak dia akan senyap2 je terus gi toilet sendiri, bila dah sudah dia akan jerit "Ibuuuu water pleaseeeeee" huhuhu so, kalau ibu tengah tido pon akan terjaga la sebab dia dah boleh jerit. kalau dia terkencing dalam suar dia akan tau rasa bersalah and buat2 konon2 nak brush teeth(pegi bilik air), pastu gi kencing then barulah dia akan bitau ibu sambil angkat panties, "Ibu, wet. Very busuk" :P

Yang paling best setakat ni kalau kami kuar pon dia takkan kencing dalam suar. tapi untuk pre-caution kami pakaikan pull-up pants tu so takdelah takut terkencing kan. Sebabnya dia pon belum "tamat pengajian" lagi. hehhehe


Apa pon aku bersyukur sangat digerakkan hati beli tangga yang mcm comel je mcm cantik je ni huhuhu and murah jugak masa beli tu dalam 20dolar camtu. And thanks ayahnya sebab belikan. hehhehe.. And bersyukur juga Allah gerakkan hati aku untuk toilet training sekarang. Alhamdulillah lega. Walaupun aku mengaku masa mula2 tu mmg agak susah, tapi semua parents mmg akan melalui stage ni kan? ;)


***dia = my baby Sufia :) 

Hari Asyura dan hari tasu'a

Alhamdulillah tahun ni aku berkesempatan puasa sunat hari asyura di melbourne. Bersyukur sangat. Wpun tempoh puasa lebih panjang dari biasa tp dapat lah aku habiskan jugak hihi bunyi macam budak2 ye. Hehe waktu subuh di sini skrg ni pukul 4 lebih and waktu buka pukul 8lebih. So pnjg la sikit kan ;)

Aku juga puasa pada hari yg ke9 berdasarkan pada sabda nabi: berpuasalah kamu pada hari ke 9 dan ke 10 dan jangan meniru cara yahudi.


Sempena hari asyura semalam jiran kaki hantar kacang2 ni. Sedap! Lama sgt xmkn kacang kuda. Alhamdulillah moga makin murah rezeki mereka amin...

***2 hari lepas buka pengsan hihu :p

Toilet training

Another priceless experience in my motherhood journey. Sufia has started the toilet training.  It is for real this time. It has been a week and she was nappy-free during the day but still with nappy during the night.


A really wonderful experience it is. Being able to watch her grow up and finally reach this stage, the benchmark to another stage of her life as a human.

Toilet training has been really scary to me and it took me months to finally decide that I must start the training on her as soon as possible.  There are lots of things I need to consider, all the 'gadgets' that will be needed and going to help the whole process, how am I going to face the fact that she might wee wee or poo poo on the carpet, her crankiness especially when she wants to poo poo, how she going to clean after doing the job herself at the children center. There were lotsss of thing I need to think of, seriously.

Until last week we suddenly felt like she was ready. She kept requesting for her froggy(her  toilet seat) and keep coming back and forth visiting the toilet. That made us decide that she's ready and we need to support her.

too many of tragedies happened this week. too many to be recalled. hehehhe but were all not too bad actually. With 100% support from Ince' Aren, we went through this stage of parenting together and we help each other!

Anyway, I will never forget her expression the first time she officially wee wee in the toilet. hehehhehe priceless!

***the key is patience.

Coffee

I think I've been attached to coffee too much. Yes.


I didn't realize that actually. I take coffee everyday. Sometimes more that one cup in a day. Coffee in the morning. Coffee with milk in the afternoon. And sometimes coffee again with milk and milo in the evening. So my body says I must have coffee everyday! I know it is not good to have it too much. They are all caffeine. So, some times I try to change the afternoon drink with plain water or hot tea. Its not really a bad thing as long as I already have coffee earlier, I mean in the morning or at least once a day.

Until recently, I had cough and sore throat. I can't take coffee in that condition, it will only make it worst. So, I didn't take coffee. I think it has been more that 5 or 6 days. Apparently my body response to it. I feel so tired, sleepy during the day, I could sleep on my desk just like during my school time. I need afternoon sleep everyday. And I sleep early at night. Leaving all my task and hoping I can continue the next day but it didn't happened.

And today, I feel pretty confident to take coffee again as I feel the sore throat has gone. So I did. I made a cup of good coffee with milk, and I can feel my brain suddenly feel fresher and no more sleepy eyes! Just like a miracle. O dear, now I am scared already. Am I addicted to caffeine? Please, please say no. >.<"

***another big cup of coffee for tonight.

Sambal tumis sedap

Hehe lama sungguh rasa tak tulis benda2 yang bermanfaat dalam ni. kesimpulannya late ni mmg aku ada malas sikit dah nak menulis kat blog. padahal sebenarnye banyak je boleh cerita.

Oklah mohlah aku nak citer perihal aku belajar masak sambal. Aku masak sambal ni kire lebih kurang dah 5 tahun la lamanya. Sama lama dengan tempoh kawin kitorang la..hehe tapi gamaknya dah 5 tahun ni tak penah sedap sambal aku ni. almaklumlah belajo masak sendiri hhehehhe

minggu lepas ada kawan kami transit sini sebelum diorang balik for good. kak faridah and family. jadi oleh kerana kak faridah punya sambal mmg best pada aku and ince' aren jadi aku sempatla berguru. aku tgk satu2 cemane agaknya kak faridah ni buat sambal sedap. Jadi meh aku tulis kat sini apa yang dia buat tu. aku tak citer step bahan2 membuat sambal tau. uolss sure tau punya.

[time kasih pakcik Google and tuan punye gambo hehe]
 Tips/cara2:

1. Cili kering mesti di rebus sampai lembut, buang biji basuh and blend sampai halus betul

2. Gunakan bawah merah campur dengan bawang brown sikit instead of bawang brown saja.

3. Tumbuk bawang bersama bawang putih. dah agak2 lumat baru tumbuk sikit ikan bilis. tumbuk kasar2 je. Tumbuk ye bukan blend. kak faridah kata masak shortcut rasanya kurang umphh..hehhee oleh kerana ini aku nak request lesung yang besar sikit kat ince' aren kikiki boleh? :p

4. Panaskan minyak. Minyak kena banyak. Kalau x takut lada x masak. Kalau letak minyak kurang and tambah masa tengah masak lada pon nanti sambalnya masak tak cantik warna dia. so kena bajet betol2.

5. tumis dulu bawang2 tumbuk tu sampai naik bau and masukkan cili kisar. masak dengan api sederhana sampai masakand pecah minyak. minyak tu nak kuar kaler merah cantik. kalau cium dalam kuali pon dah tak bau lada lagi sambal tu. lada dah masak baru masukkan asam jawa sikit and gula and garam kalau nak. kalau belah johor sambal biasa manis sikit(sikit je) kalau belah melaka biasa lebih masam berbanding manis.

6. masukkan air sikit dalam lesung bekas tumbuk tadi and masukkan dalam sambal kalau nak sambal cair sikit.

6. masukkan bawang hiris and ikan bilis lagi(kalau nak). balance rasa and biar bawang layu sikit and tadaaaaaa siap sudah sambal kite.hehhehe

gitu lah sikit sebanyak cara kak faridah buat sambal. banyak yang beza dengan cara aku masak. ekekke patutla ince' aren selalu komplen sambal aku rasa lada..hihihihihi


***semangat buat sambal sekarang :D

Sufia and bad words

Recently Sufia banyak betol bawak balik rumah words2 yang kite x berkenan. yang xsesuai dengan budaya kita orang melayu ni la.

contohnya:

Ibu..stop it!

Ibu don't! Naughty ibu..
No, you monster!
 

Haishhh fening kepala mak nak...

***janganla lekat lama2..isk

Clinique Liquid Facial Soap

untuk segmen pembukaan baru start nak buat keje untuk hari ni ni(hehehe) aku nak buat review sikit pasal pencuci muka kat atas tu. ..

[pokcik googs]
sebenarnye, semenjak aku duduk melbi ni aku dah jarang ada masalah jerawat besar2 kat muka. mungkin sebab cuaca. even jerawat pasir pon actually jarang je rasa ada kuar kat muke ni. sebelum2 ni aku guna neutrogena pencuci muka. mmg rasa sesuai sangat2. rasa kulit bersih and tak rasa berminyak or kering. so balance je. tapi bila dah lama2 guna rasa macam minyak tu ada lagi kat muka bile cuci. but, bile dalam keadaan biasa pulak muka kering mengelupas2. haishhh mmg huduh betol la..huhu aku pon xtau le ngape jadi camtu, berminyak tapi kering. so aku anggap la mungkin dah 3 4 tahun pakai pencuci yang sama so sampai masa untuk ubah angin kot.

kemudian aku tukar ke neutrogena juga, tapi yang mosturize kulit(sebab masalah kulit kering tulah). so aku pakai la. TAPI yang ni mmg tak sesuai dengan aku. bila cuci rasa xbersihhhh huhuhu. dah tau kulit jenis minyak sbnnya kan. pi gatai tukar padan muka. tapi memandangkan sebotol tu penuh takkan la aku nak tukar lain and beli yang baru kan... dah la belas2 dolar jugak. so aku pon pejam mata jugaklah pakai. tapi hari2 mandi rasa macam muka tak mandi sebab rasa xbersih..huhuhu 3 4 bulan jugak kot baru botol ni rasa macam ringan..ditambah dengan stress yang menggunung ni. makanya muka aku pon mmg berjerawat yang ampun la..especially kat area dagu. huhuhu bertambah stress dibuatnya tgk jerawat sendiri.

HARI NI, aku try pencuci muka clinique ni, actually aku tak beli pon. aku try kawan punya. before dia nak balik for good aritu die tinggalkan kat aku sikit. mmg dah lama dia suggest benda ni. dia kata mmg sedap pakai. so aku try lah..TERBUKTI, mmg bessstttttt sangat.. huhu dah lama aku tak rasa muka bersih macam ni. sampai bawah2 dagu2 aku sental. bila touch muka tu mmg tak rasa apa2. i mean tak rasa kering, tak rasa berminyak. just nice.. feeling dia lebih hebat compare to masa aku mula2 guna neutrogena yang biasa dulu2.WALAUPUN jerawat ni xlah serta merta ilang, ada je lagi kat muka ni ha tapi part yang xde jerawat tu mmg rasa bersih.

oleh itu aku pon bercita2 la nak pakai pencuci ni lepas ni kan. so, sempat la survey harga sat. hahhahahaha ya Allah patutlah best, dua kali ganda harga neutrogena aku kot.kikiki tapi InsyaAllah kalau berkemampuan nanti aku mmg nak pakai terus kot. sebab rasa sesuai dengan kulit I. yang penting hati ku senang. ye dok??

apa pon aku still bagi thumbs dekat neutrogena yang biasa aku pakai tu. sebab wpun harganya lebih murah tapi not too bad ;)

***hehehhe macam tulis essay kan? :P

Selamat Hari Raya AidilAdha

Hari raya diperantauan..cehhh poyo gitu kan???huhuhu dah basi pon kalau nak syahdu2 sangat.dah 4tahun pon..haishhh :P


Apa pon Selamat hari Raya kami sekeluarga ucapkan. Ingatlah kami bila makan ketupat rendang tu..

***kita jumpe di tawun depan! ;)

Handphone free weeks

I change my mobile phone recently. Again. huhu So, this time might be the 12th time. Kot? Well, I never asked for a new one. But, I am married to a really wise man, indeed! He never being kedekut to me. As long as it is not too much. And of course I know the boundary. huhuhu

He said, take the chance to buy a better phone, with better camera, with better function. He knows I love to take Sufia's photos and videos using my phone so, its good to have a better phone. It also really useful when I travel alone. etc etc etc.

OK. We don't have much money actually. There are lots of bills we need to pay. And the house rental too. But, my husband always said. InsyaAllah we can find money. He is working anyway. Haishhh..So, he used the money we got after selling our blue car. He said, that was my car. He knows I want to keep memory about the car, and this is the way we do it. huhuhuhu (sdey). kereta buruk je pon. tapi sdey semacam.. mmg sentimental aku ni ;(( so, ni kira terima jelah dalam terpaksa. ekekeke boleh??padahal dalam hati.. kembang setaman :D


So,  that was the story. But now come another story. I have cut the simcard into a micro simcard and suddenly we have to send the phone back to the seller. So, temporarily I have to use my old phone. Unfortunately I can't (for some complicated reason and story).

[pokcik googs image]
Here I am, a lady without a phone. Akhirnya after almost 10 years! Suddenly no phone pulak! huhuhu sabarrrr..

Really can't wait for the new phone to arrive. We just sent it back this morning, so probably it will take up to 2 weeks for me to get a new replacement. hihihi chaiyok Dilla! :P


***rasa tenang jugak ;)

Perfume idaman

Pukul 5.40am, kepala aku senoneng and aku belum tido lagi. sat lagi nak tido. so tanak pk yang berat2..just nak tulis kat sini yang aku mengidam perfume ni. so kalau ada sesape rasa nak belanja kite dialu2kan ye he he he he he he... :D


***nunite all (bak kate sufia) hehe

Shocking week

Last week was definitely our most shocking week, both for Sufia and me. Especially for Sufia. Too many things happened within the same period.

[selalu xhabis!! and masih lagi mintak.. camne nak buat nih?? >.<' ]
(1st) her bottle weaning. At first it was almost successful.  She never requested for her bottle anymore. Whenever she wanted it, she will say, "Susu, in cup". That's a relief. Now, I need to find a way, to make her understand that, the 'brand new susu(with some Milo)' can only be drink in the morning or before bed only. This is the 2nd she day woke up without the bottle. She did mention,"Susu" this morning. But, easily forget about it when her ayah called her to eat some noodle. She definitely needs the susu just because she is just hungry, or just because it was the way she did it every morning and night. You go girl!
*update: suddenly she keep requesting for susu again! haishhh

[still smiling :) ]


[car transfer form]
(2nd) We have sold our blue car. Now I am feeling lost. Ince' aren asked me how do I feel now. Then, I said, I am feeling lost. I live with my own car, I mean I have my very own car since 6 years ago. And now I don't have one. What do you think I should feel?sighhh ;(  The moment the new lady bought the car and took it from us, Sufia really cried her heart out. "I want blue carrrr. I want my blue carrrrrr. Don't!!!" What a really sad moment. Her very first car of her life too. And then the next morning we asked her again, "where's our blue car Sufia?". She began to understand that we don't own the car anymore. Someone else needs the car. She said," Auntie, far away". And smiled. Such a big relief.

[just near the passenger seat. Alhamdulillah ya Allah for protecting my husband from the bad thing]
[our friend's car on the left side]

(3rd) A big shocking night for me last week. Ince' Aren had a car accident. Alhamdulillah. There were nothing serious. Well, at least nothing serious on him and his friends. Both were safe. The only that needs to be replace is his glasses, which is broken and his friend's car need to be fixed, now at the workshop. Hopefully both will be covered under the other car insurance. It is obviously not Ince' Aren's side fault. The lady overrun the traffic light and hit the car. Gosh..I still can believe what really happened :'((


***Too many shocking things in a week. Feeling tired already.